Bonds Or Fame?

Recently,not many good things happened to me. So many questions hovering around my mind. Bonds or Fame ?
Many a times, when we're trying to achieve fame, we forgot about others' feelings. Many a times, when we're trying to create bonds,we are not making achievements. Question is, how can we achieve the both aspects? It's very difficult. Very. But I'm trying very hard to. I just feel sad. Where is the bond we used to have? All of us were very happy bunch of people but what's happening now? I wanna noe..